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The Thoughtful Parent

The Thoughtful Parent

A blog that makes child development approachable.

  • Social-Emotional
    • 7 Ways to Teach Your Child About Kindness
    • 4 Powerful Social-Emotional Lessons Kids are Learning During the Pandemic
  • Temperament
    • Seeing the Unique Gift of Your Child’s Temperament
    • Insights for Parents from the Science of Child Temperament
  • Toddler Development
    • Research-Backed Real-Life Strategies to Discipline Kids without Yelling
    • Research-Backed Ways to Thrive Through the Toddler Years
  • Child Development
    • A Parent’s Guide to Understanding the 4 Attachment Styles
    • Mirror Test for Babies: When Do They Recognize Themselves?
  • Potty Training
    • When Do You Start Potty Training?
    • Potty Training Readiness Quiz

Parenting with Research, Insight, and Love

Parenting with confidence comes from knowledge. Parenting with grace comes from insight.

Play-Based Learning


young child lost in imaginative play outdoors, illustrating the importance of play in early childhood development

The Importance of Play in Early Childhood Development

Child playing outside independently, inspired by 1980s free-range childhood"

Growing Up in the 80s: Recreate It For Your Child Today

preschool tour checklist

The Preschool Tour Checklist to Help Choose the Right Preschool for Your Child

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Toddler Development


Toddler Growth Spurts: Timeline, Signs, and Ages to Expect

The Scientific Reason Why Toddlers Whine (and how to lessen it)

toddler attachment

When to Worry About Toddler Tantrums: Signs to Watch For

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Social-Emotional Development


Toddler Growth Spurts: Timeline, Signs, and Ages to Expect

what to do when kids are bored during summer

What to Do When Kids Are Bored This Summer (+ Free Quiz)

summer camp tips

The Benefits Of Summer Camp Are Real, But Leave the Phone at Home

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Amy Webb

I’m a wife, mom of two boys and a child development writer. I may have a Ph.D, but I believe the value of child development research is not in telling us what is “right” or “wrong” with our parenting, but in helping us to see our children with a new lens.

If you are looking for strategies to support your child’s development using research combined with your own innate intuition, this is the place for you.

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Latest Posts

reading to babies

Best Baby Books for Brain Development (According to Research)

By Amy Webb, Ph.D.Amy holds a Ph.D. in Human Development and Family Sciences and writes about child development research for everyday parents. Sneak peek: What are the best baby books? As new parents, we often wonder which books to read to our babies. Luckily, research can guide us in choosing books to read to our babies …

mirror test babies

Mirror Test for Babies: When Do They Recognize Themselves?

Sneak peek: What does the mirror test for self-awareness in babies tell us about their development? At some point or another, many parents have placed their infant in front of a mirror and wondered if their child could understand that it was their own reflection they were seeing. In the realms of child development and …

Why conflict with your child might actually be healthy (according to research)

Sneak peek: Research shows up to 70% of parent-baby interactions involve some kind of mismatch — and that’s completely normal. Here’s why rupture and repair may be the most important parenting skill you’ve never heard of. If you’re on social media much, you’ve probably seen many different versions of parenting advice. One that I’ve noticed …

attachment parenting guidelines

More Than Just the Milk: Why Breastfeeding Struggles Don’t Have to Define Motherhood

Sneak peek: Breastfeeding struggles in the first months of motherhood are common but they don’t have to ruin those early motherhood moments. Breastfeeding can feel far more difficult than many new moms expect. From painful latching and sleep deprivation to worries about milk supply, the early weeks of breastfeeding often come with emotional and physical …

Will Co-Sleeping with My Kids Ruin My Marriage? Research-Based Answers

Sneak peek: Does co-sleeping affect marriage? This issue is a common question among parents. Luckily, research offers us some insight into this tricky topic Does co-sleeping affect marriage? Research suggests the answer is more nuanced than many parents think. Co-sleeping itself does not necessarily reduce marital satisfaction, but conflict around sleep arrangements and mismatched parenting expectations …

How to Stop Yelling as a Parent: A Science-Backed Way to Stay Calm

Sneak peek: Wondering how to stop yelling as a parent? Learn a simple, science-backed approach using self-talk and parenting mantras to stay calm—even in stressful moments. If you’ve ever yelled at your child—and immediately wished you could take it back—you’re not alone. We don’t want to yell. It happens in those moments when everything builds …


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Tender Beginnings

child temperament

Tuning into Temperament

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The Intentional Stay-at-Home Mom

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