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The Thoughtful Parent

The Thoughtful Parent

A blog that makes child development approachable.

  • Social-Emotional
    • 7 Ways to Teach Your Child About Kindness
    • 4 Powerful Social-Emotional Lessons Kids are Learning During the Pandemic
  • Temperament
    • Seeing the Unique Gift of Your Child’s Temperament
    • Insights for Parents from the Science of Child Temperament
  • Toddler Development
    • Research-Backed Real-Life Strategies to Discipline Kids without Yelling
    • Research-Backed Ways to Thrive Through the Toddler Years
  • Child Development
    • A Parent’s Guide to Understanding the 4 Attachment Styles
    • Child Psychology Classics: The Mirror Test
  • Parent Coaching

Parenting with Research, Insight, and Love

Parenting with confidence comes from knowledge. Parenting with grace comes from insight.

Play-Based Learning


choosing toys for your child

Age-Appropriate Toys that Won’t Give You Buyer’s Regret {ages birth-10}

The Hidden Power of Hand-Clapping Songs: How Simple Rhythms Boost Kids’ Learning

toddler playing blocks

Why Guided Play is the Secret to Playtime with Your Kids

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Toddler Development


Parenting Survival Tips for Doing Disney World with Young Kids

Milk Choices for Toddlers: What Parents Need to Know

Are Low-Stimulation Shows Really Better for Children?

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Social-Emotional Development


social-emotional development

Toys for Emotional Development: Gifts that Keep Giving

alternative to elf on the shelf

7 Reasons to Ditch Elf on the Shelf {and an alternative tradition we love}

girl with advent calendar

7 Advent Calendars that Foster Kindness

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Amy Webb

I’m a wife, mom of two boys and a child development writer. I may have a Ph.D, but I believe the value of child development research is not in telling us what is “right” or “wrong” with our parenting, but in helping us to see our children with a new lens.

If you are looking for strategies to support your child’s development using research combined with your own innate intuition, this is the place for you.

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Latest Posts

3 Totally Realistic but Powerful Ways to be a Happy Stay-at-Home Mom

Sneak peek: Learning how to be a happy stay-at-home mom can be a struggle for many of us. Read on for tips and ideas for not just surviving but thriving as a stay-at-home mom. After being a stay-at-home mom for over 10 years, I’ve learned that it is a role full of paradox. Yes, it is a …

crying baby

6 Fascinating Newborn Reflexes that May Surprise You

Sneak peek: Newborn reflexes are a fascinating aspect of early development. Let’s explore the meaning behind some of these “hidden” behaviors that are present in newborns. Newborn reflexes are innate behaviors that mysteriously disappear after the first few months of life. For some, their function is clear; they usually help the baby survive in some way. …

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The Thoughtful Parent’s Guide to Attachment Theory

Sneak peek: The concept of attachment in child development is mentioned a lot in the parenting world, but there are many misconceptions about what it really means. A research-based look at “attachment.” The word “attachment” is used a lot in parenting magazines and often comes up in discussions of child development and parenting. Of course, …

toddler boy

Emotional Regulation in Preschoolers and Toddlers: Why Language Matters More for Boys

The development of emotional regulation in preschoolers and toddlers takes a lot of modeling and patience on the part of parents. Although little boys are thought to develop self-regulation skills later than young girls, research shows that language skills can help make up this difference.Many a parent of a toddler or even preschooler has encouraged their child to …

Distracted by Your Device? The Science of How It Shapes Your Parenting—and Your Child

Sneak peek: New research is showing the impact of technoference—the ways that technology distracts us in relationships. How can we change our perspective and put technology in its place (plus a tech mantra to help your family).I got my first smartphone when my oldest was a newborn (summer 2009). This was just the beginning of …

Will Co-Sleeping with My Kids Ruin My Marriage? Research-Based Answers

Sneak peek: Does co-sleeping affect marriage? Can co-sleeping ruin your marriage? This issue is a common question among parents. Luckily, research offers us some insight into this tricky topic I was scrolling through Fatherly the other day when I came across this article, “How Co-Sleeping Ruined My Marriage.”  Like most of you, any reference to something “ruining my …


Books and Courses

book for new moms

Tender Beginnings

child temperament

Tuning into Temperament

stay at home moms

The Intentional Stay-at-Home Mom

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